Published inILLUMINATION·PinnedMember-only6 Questions I Still Have For the Youtuber who “rehomed” her son#6 Why take two COVID-19 relief loans? — One year ago, the youtuber Myka Stauffer and her husband (James Stauffer) posted a video on one of their channels letting the world know they decided to disrupt the adoption of their four-year-old son. The reaction was immediate and, unlike anything the Stauffers had imagined, backlashed on them. Their video…Social Media7 min readSocial Media7 min read
Published inArtfullyAutistic·PinnedMember-only7 Autistic Signs Everyone Missed in Me as a Child And Teenager#6 Meltdowns — After reading this article, I decided it was about time I wrote about some signs of Autism I had as a child. I read online that writing the signs you had as a child makes it easier to get a diagnosis. I filled several pages with moments from my childhood…Autism7 min readAutism7 min read
Published inArtfullyAutistic·Feb 26Member-onlyEndometriosis’ nasty cousin, and the power of self-advocacyWhy you should advocate for yourself — Ever since I started menstruating when I was only 11 years old, that week has always been a black hole in my life. I would lie in bed, in pain, consume painkillers as if they were candy (and it would help little), and just put my whole life on hold…Health3 min readHealth3 min read
Published inArtfullyAutistic·Dec 19, 2022Member-only10 Things That Have Changed the Way I ThinkAutism, mental health, travel and more — You can be autistic and not know it: It took me 27 years to realise that a lot of things in my life could be explained by the simple fact that I was (that I am) autistic. Depression feels more like emptiness than sadness: Shortly after being diagnosed with autism…Mental Health3 min readMental Health3 min read
Published inAn Injustice!·Aug 2, 2022Member-onlyThe Women Who Enslaved Her Housekeeper and Fled to an Abandoned HouseThe disturbing story of Margarida Bonetti — Reality can indeed be stranger than fiction. This is sure true for Margarida Bonetti’s story. Margarida, born into a powerful family in Brazil, moved with her husband to the United States in the ’70s. The couple took their black housekeeper with them, a “present” from her parents, and settled in…Crime3 min readCrime3 min read
Published inArtfullyAutistic·Jun 27, 2022Member-onlyAutism Is as Common in Women as It Is In MenHow many women are we missing? — Autism has always been seen as a male issue. It has been mainly diagnosed in boys (only 1 out of every 4 diagnoses is a girl). More recently, diagnosis in women (and girls) has become more common. The number of psychologists and psychiatrists who understand that women tend to mask…Autism2 min readAutism2 min read
Published inArtfullyAutistic·Jun 20, 2022Member-onlyAre Autistic Brains Too Much?A story of books and words — Growing up, there was a painting at my grandmother’s house of a woman sitting on a chair with a book in her hands. Being a lover of books myself, I found it fascinating, It was like an invisible line tying me to her. It wasn’t until many years later that…Autism3 min readAutism3 min read
Published inArtfullyAutistic·Jun 13, 2022Member-onlyWant to Be Autistic in Public? You Better Ask For Permission to Speak upOn how the world sees Autistic people — A while ago I was watching an activist on Autism give an interview on a tv show. I follow her on social media, we have exchanged messages a few times, and I admire how she spreads awareness about Autism (especially adult diagnosis), shares her personal struggles, and even gives lectures…Netflix3 min readNetflix3 min read
Published inArtfullyAutistic·Jun 6, 2022Member-only7 Things I Learned Writing Online as An Autistic#4 Change your environment based on your sensory needs — My one-year anniversary of writing on the internet was just a few months ago. During this year, I learned a lot about writing online, and about myself. Here are 7 things I learned over the past year about writing on the internet. 1. Motivation comes and goes We all start writing extremely motivated and with…Autism3 min readAutism3 min read
Published inThe Shortform·May 13, 2022Member-onlyThe One Thing That’s Always Missing from Conversations Around AbortionMoney, money, money — Republicans want women to have children, but how are they supposed to raise them? Half the women who seek abortions in the US live below the poverty line, and 3/4 are low-income. Raising a child in the US costs around $272,049 until the age of 18. The poverty line is…Abortion1 min readAbortion1 min read